Dating and the seven commandments
Inevitably, you will put extraordinary expectations on people to fulfill you, complete you, entertain you, and soothe you.No created thing-certainly no human-can perform up to those outlandish expectations.Anticipating plans for a fun night out, you eagerly answer in your sweetest voice, "Hello? Maybe we should think about just being friends." "Whatever ... Have a nice time with your friends." You hang up on him, hoping you left him thinking that you couldn't care less what he does with his life or who he spends it with. You spend most of the weekend on the couch, watching reruns of That '70s Show on TV.
It was through that double-dumping that I learned that I needed a life. When you invest all your energy and self-esteem in getting a date or having a serious relationship, you have nothing else to give.People with lives do not have to be dating someone to feel good about themselves.People with lives are not always on the prowl, going places and hanging out with certain people just so they can meet a cute guy or a hot girl.Only the Creator who made you can do that, and He made you to ... Before you ever even look at the opposite sex again, please follow this first and greatest commandment to get a life.If you are wondering what a real life looks like or how to get one, read on.
He is starving for someone to fill the emotional hole in his soul.