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The women told her boyfriend that those were the shoes that she really liked. Her American boyfriend sensed that his girlfriend was unhappy and understood why. “When I want to buy a present for you, I will spend money on the present! But I didn’t plan to buy this for you.” No explanation would have been fine.
Her American boyfriend knew that she had been eyeing the shoes for a while and knew that the particular design rarely went on sale. To the woman, his explanation only made the situation worse. The woman is now married; her husband is still American but not the American who offered to “lend her money.” This story reflects that when Chinese women and American men date there are inherently different ways of thinking.
A Very Hot Kiss A Chinese girl named Tina spoke to me about her American boyfriend. One time, Tina had just finished eating dinner when she met her American boyfriend out for a date. He covered his mouth and ran into the bathroom to vomit. I've been through all that and frankly, I find it very awkward.
Having not seen her for many days, her American boyfriend gave her a huge kiss. Perhaps that why we always say they are materialistic. Jan 31, 2014 These examples aren't very realistic.
Every time a man gets a divorce he loses a layer of skin, becoming poorer and poorer as he has to hand half of his assets over to his former wife. ” Ever since hearing this story, whenever a girl in our group of friends goes out on a date we always remind her, “Remember not to eat hot pot!
Therefore, when it is time for a man to remarry they often ask their new wife to sign a pre-nuptial agreement. ” This is a small joke, but I think it is clear what happened in the story.
A pre-nup before marriage My other friend and her American boyfriend wanted to get married.
The two normally got along very well, until one incident occurred which underlined their fundamental differences: The women and her American boyfriend decided to go for a walk after having dinner together. At the mall, she spotted a pair of designer shoes that she had long admired.However, because of differences in cultural background and daily habits there are bound to be conflicting views in the relationship.I have been in America for many years and have seen and heard many stories which underline the conflicting views and other unavoidable problems evident in relationships between Chinese women and American men.These trivial matters are different in each individual relationship and do not represent general American-Chinese love affairs.However, they always seem to exist when Eastern and Western culture decide to tangle together.